If you ever find me being squirrely and not responding, being generally evasive and poorly behaved socially, it's probably because I need to say no and I don't know how to do it gracefully. I get attacked by a bunch of Catholic gulit, Minnesota Nice, or Good Girl-itis and freak out. Usually, the no comes but the situation has been needlessly complicated by my general stinkiness. This post from Alexandra Franzen can help us all with
5 easy steps to say no, keep up our boundaries, and invest in our own sanity all while being up front and totally non-stinky.
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